Great articles to read later

PROFESSIONAL ARTICLES

• Interview tips (best).
• Tips for listening. (anger usually stems from fear & insecurity)
• Tips for new bosses.
• Keeping your word.
• Forming, Storming, Norming, Performing. Tucker.
• Screening for a toxic boss. Christine Porath
• Have a growth mindset. Carol Dweck
• Professional dos and don'ts.
• Civility, Christine Porath.
• What leadership is/isn't: Bill Gates.
• When a request is unreasonable, Ask, don't Tell.
• We need more leaders and fewer bullies in the workplace. 
• Impostor syndrome and how to deal with it. 
• Detect personality - for interviewers and potential dates.
• Detecting a toxic culture before you start.
• Advice to teenage self (from top CEOs).
• Success in your first 90 days.
• Tech support advice.
• Charlie Kindel's pro blog. 
• Rest, but get more done.
• Prioritization, focus - ditch overthinking.
• Interview questions: What to ask when you're being interviewed.
• Interview - impress hiring manager.
• Asking for advice: do your homework first.
• 90% of decisions don't matter. (Charlie Kindel)
• Retire at 30.
• Be more effective - 30 habits.
• Retirement tips. (How to save enough).
• Keep in touch with old friends. 
• Power verbs for your resume.
• No longer entry-level resume tips.
• Interview questions to screen micromanagers.
• Stop being micromanaged.
• Spot a micro manager in an interview.
• Small talk questions. Example questions. More tips.
• Women: try. Don't be paralyzed by failure.
• Encourage honest dialogue.
• What pushes your buttons?
• Truly awesome article. Express concerns without being defensive.
• Be a better listener.
• JK Rowling - on failure. 
• Career advice I wish I'd had at 25.
• Gartner Magic Quadrant: software research evaluations.
• Why some people can do no wrong.
• 90% of decisions don't matter. Prioritizing - tips.
• Ask for a raise.
• Tough interview questions. More tough ones.
• Advice from Ruth Bader Ginsburg.
• Leadership.
• Confidence.
• What CEOs notice during interviews.
• Honest job interviews.
• Icon design.
• Economic downturn - end of 2019. 
• When you don't get the promotion.
• 'Radical Candor' by Kim Malone Scott.
• Supporting colleagues with mental health.

TECH

• 3-D printing a cement house.
• Recommended automation tools.
• Tips for improving process.

GRIEF

• When a friend dies.
• Dealing with layoffs, setbacks, and transitions.
• How to deal with the death of a grandparent.
• What my grandma's death taught me about grieving.
• Trauma, depression, and release.

PARENTING STUFF

• Gentle parenting.
• Convo tips for kids. 
• Teaching kindness.
• Dealing with friend drama.
• Tips for getting kids to open up.
• Tips for helping with stress. 
• Teach people skills.
• Making time for kids/lovers/family.
• 3 questions to ask instead of 'what do you want to be when you grow up'
• Difference between "nice" and "kind"
• Explaining puberty to kiddos - it's a change in your brain!

CULTURE

• The people around you: influence.
• Why the French are never excited. (Being frank). 
• How to travel.

OTHER ARTICLES

• Stay chill, no matter what. (dogsledding).
• Grow happiness.
• Being a late bloomer.
• Creating the Habit of Not Being Busy.
• The shoe that grows!
• Best places to live in the US. (good commutes, jobs, safety, schools, etc.)
• End of usefulness.
• Choosing happiness.
• Manage emotions: It's easier than we thought.
• Being chill: macro/micro stress-management.
• Gratitude.
• Balance: Try these things.
• Growing wings: Thoughts on butterflies and glop.
• Government shutdowns since 1976.
• We will not be silent.
• Donate directly to refugees.
• Help a grieving friend.
• Forgiveness - best definition I've found.
• Forgiveness - TED talk.
• Forgiveness - related research and book.
• Life changing article, recommended x Emily Rusch.
• Submission - virtuous vs unhealthy.
• Why you can't commit.
• Healthy boundaries at work - article.
• 3 reasons you can't win with a Narcissist.
• 3 More reasons you can't win with a Narcissist.
• Recover from dating a Narcissist. 
• Control.

CONVERSATION

• Good questions. (encourage peeps to talk).
• Avoiding small talk on a first date.
• Conversation tips.
• How to not say the wrong thing.

RELATIONSHIPS

• Take the high road, advice x couples counselor.
• Social Skills (awareness).
• Micro-moves (in relationships).
• To Tell Someone They're Wrong, First Tell Them They're Right.
• Don't say these phrases at work.
• Being likeable.
• Build a culture of civility.
• Making workplace disagreements productive.
• Find ways to agree before you disagree.
• Mindfulness, triggers, and reprogramming.
• Positive childhood experiences can counter-act traumatic ones (e.g. divorce) :)
• Work/life balance. Enjoy yourself; it's later than you think.
• Communicate expectations. 
• Leaving the single life.
• Frientimacy: Building more meaningful relationships.
• Everyone around you is grieving - go easy.
• Ignoring your personal nay-sayer.
• Long distance friendships.
• Dating - men vs women. Situations that intimidate.
• Be a better listener - breathe.
• Parenting resilient kids.
• Questions for your partner. 
• Meditation - effects on your brain. 
• Disagree better.
• Compassion fatigue.

PLAIN INTERESTING PSYCHOLOGY

• How our Minds and Bodies Work Together to Heal Trauma.
• Bruce Lee on determination.
• How we think.

HEALTH

• Sleeping: Routines that help you sleep.
• Standing desk x clench butt or flex quads.
• Living with MS: Research + supplements. 
• Running: Lower your heart rate. More tips.
• Improve digestion.

LABEL and read later

• Survival Skills During the Great Depression 
• Things will get brighter.
•  Don't have everything figured out.
• Jim Gaffigan, making the best of a brain tumor.
• Set boundaries around time.
• Why my dad never made VP.
• Waking up at 4 am won't make you more effective.
• 7 books that made millionaires.
• 44 books of high achievers.
• Be willing to listen to others.
• Lowest level of intervention first.
• See true colors by taking new employees to breakfast.

BYU DEVOTIONALS

• Power statements. I'm going to do this. Today is my day!
• Humble Uncertainty. (don't pack up on day 1)
• Choose Happiness. (bring warm spirit) Larry Lawrence
• Fear Not. Kevin Worthen
• Value of Work. Janette Hales Beckham
• To Me He Doth Not Stink. (By a Texan :)
• Be 100 Percent Responsible. Anthony Robbins
• On Failing and Finishing. (Cassy Budd)
• Lay Hold Upon the Word.
• Discovering Your Divine Individuality. (Julie Crockett)
• Thy Troubles to Bless.
• The Faith to Do His Will. (Beth Luthy)
• What Goes Around Comes Around.
• Real Causes, Real Effects.
• Hard Sayings and Safe Spaces.
• Keeping the Spiritual Lifeblood Flowing.

KINDNESS
Want to be inspired? Be like these wonderful people :)

• Andrea Bassett Houchens <3
• Paul Allen (Bill Gate's partner).
• Being there for a friend: empathy, gratitude.
• Gratitude at work.
• Self Discipline with Russell M Nelson.
• Interview with Melinda Gates.
• Ruby Grace, Gulfport, MO
• Lessons over iced tea, Grandma's easel
• Defending innocence.

BRAIN TRAINING

• NY Times free puzzles: SET!
• Recommended x Hopkins: Free games for working memory. 
• Recommended x Hopkins: More free games for working memory.
• Art of Manliness.
• Psychcentral.
• John Hopkins, Dual-n-back.
• Brain HQ, gift subscription/yearly membership.

AWESOME MUSIC

• You Know Better Than I, Asian Group

PODCAST

• Boldnewmom.
• Our ability to communicate depends on our ability to find common ground. Uri Hasson.
• Justice system reform - Alice Goffman. 
• Your worst deeds don't define you - Shaka S.

EXAMPLES

• Awesome LinkedIn profile.
• Excellent vulnerability, deep questions, and answers.

HISTORY

• Victorian Orphans. 

TED TALKS
MLK - What is Your Blueprint?

Control your feelings - addiction prevention.

Stay friends - even when beliefs differ. 

AUTISM
Autism - brothers.
Autism - de Espana.
Autism - Technical info.

Lessons from special needs son.
Be real please, especially at church.
The price of being "right" - article.
Being Happier - really good tips.
What 50 yr olds know that 20 yr olds don't
Video - speaking well

12 Rules for Life'

9 Habits of Unsuccessful People

Artificial Intelligence (AI) News

Building confidence in children
Damaging parenting habits to avoid

Good cover letter.

BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS
Daniel Goleman - for empathy.

VIDEOS
On abusive relationships.
TED talk - taking risks.

From LINKEDIN - Bruce Kasanoff • 2nd Communicate in an uplifting and empowering manner | Park City Think Tank 

When you meet up with a friend you haven't seen in three years, you wouldn't immediately say, "You look 15 pounds heavier." Why not? Doing so would be tactless and cruel, so instead you say something like, "It is so great to see you again," even if you think to yourself that your friend looks a bit on the heavy side. People say that honesty is the best policy, but that's only true if you also show compassion when sharing an honest opinion. In a civilized world, honesty and compassion need to go hand in hand. You must use honesty to help other people, not to hurt them. And you must be cautious not to accidentally harm others. Here are a few tips how to do this... Be human. Recognize that humanity is more important than the absolute truth. Use facts to help another improve his or her life, rather than to do something that might destroy their life. Be cautious. Recognize that the "truth" is always subjective. Each of us sees "facts" through a haze of beliefs, attitudes and experiences. Be generous. Ask more of yourself. The best skill is bringing out talent in others, so rather than judging others, do your best to help them. Be compassionate. Share constructive feedback with tact, and do it when the other person is ready to hear it.